There I was, not much more than 24 hours after my lo was born, openly weeping in my hospital bed, nipples cracked and bleeding, exhausted from recovery of a 4th degree tear, and feeling like a complete failure because I couldn’t figure out how to feed my baby. Nurses and lactation specialists came in and went out. For a few moments, I actually felt successful. But it continued to hurt. Toe curling pain. It would take 3 months to latch pain free. Breastfeeding is hardwork. Two days after delivery, my dear husband took me to the local breastfeeding support group. Thanks to a dear friend who...