Photo: My grandparents on their wedding day I’m gay. Though, to the chagrin of older generations, I prefer to refer to myself as queer . It’s what all the gay, cool, over-educated, hipsters are doing right now. I’m Asian. I’m engaged. Yay! I’ve also been told that I’m a funny person. Though I don’t have the ego to describe myself as funny, I am flattered that others perceive me as such. So it’s with great sadness that I admit that I’ve never told the funniest joke of my life: “A Chinese girl informs her parents that she’s met the love of her life. Warily, her parents look up and say, ‘As long...