Alyssa Gavulic is a Marriage and Family Therapist and a Mental Health Counselor who has a PhD in Counseling Education and Supervision from Liberty University. She is a part of an active research team that is investigating the various dimensions of resilience as they apply to a variety of life experiences and populations.
Alyssa has an extensive background working with individuals, couples, and families within the military, veteran, widow, and bereavement populations. Her expertise in these areas comes from her education and training as well as her personal experiences. In addition to being a Special Operations military spouse for 15 years, she completed a year-long internship with the Chaplain Family Life Training Program at Fort Benning and then worked post-graduation with predominantly active duty military population and/or their families. After becoming a military widow in 2014 and losing one of her six children in 2015, she has also become actively involved in a variety of Gold Star family organizations, military and civilian widow organizations, and parent bereavement groups.
She now specializes in resiliency, wellness, military unique stressors, trauma recovery, marriage and family therapy, parenting techniques, and bereavement counseling. In addition, through her personal experience of several successive losses and her extensive academic research on factors involved in making sense of suffering and building resiliency, she now speaks at events and teaches at seminars around the country offering a uniquely multifaceted perspective on how one can endure and ultimately overcome adversity.
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January 22, 2018
“Don’t forget to hug him, squeeze him tightly first, and then lay out the steps to recover. . . I learned that from Lylah. . . Hugs first . . ." - My mother, Lorna, said this to me today after I expressed being overwhelmed with the mess of poor grades that one of my high school children had allowed themselves to get into. You see, my youngest daughter, Lylah, used to throw some pretty impressive fits when she was 2 ½ years old. She was the youngest of my 6 children and she embodied the “terrible twos” like she was trying to supersede her position in the family since the day of her birth. She...
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September 29, 2017
I drove my son to school today because he missed the bus . . . again. Although that menial and tedious task certainly had not been a part of my plan for today, one of the things I value deeply in this unpredictable life is trying to make the most of unexpected moments. So as I sat next to him in the warming car on this cold winter morning, I began to rehearse all the ways that I could explain to him the long-term benefits of practicing punctuality and proving responsibility. About halfway into what I considered a very convincing spiel, I glanced over to make sure that he was buckled up and...
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June 26, 2017
Unfortunately, my life is anything but cliché. Sometimes I wish I could just easily fit into that predictable pattern that a stereotype would offer. But no, that’s not me. I grew up in a broken home as the oldest of 6 children with a variety of stepfathers that were less than qualified for the job of raising children. In fact, even amongst my mother’s 7 siblings, I still never really saw marriage or parenting done particularly well. So as I was contemplating the full academic scholarship I had been awarded to college when I was just 17 years old, I figured I would avoid marriage for a while...
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