Having a child always seemed overwhelming even though I have worked in education throughout my career. I was terrified to bring a black child into this world, knowing how hard it would be for them. However, when your father dies and mother suffers a stroke, your priorities change. I was blessed to be raised in a home that taught me to be proud of my culture as well as the importance of giving back to my community. I wanted the opportunity to instill these values into someone who can continue their legacy. However, the pregnancy and childbirth experience showed me this journey became an...